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Carlos Tevez Agent Kia Joorabchian More Faces than a Town Hall Clock

January 31st, 2012 No comments

Rotten apples usually all lie in the bottom of the box and that is certainly an appropriate place for football agent Kia Joorabchian and two smelly apples that he is agent for the braindead Carlos Tevez and the hapless clueless QPR manager the serial loser Mark Hughes. The way that these three conduct their business and carry on in public is disgraceful!

The latest sham from these greedy individuals is for Mark Hughes to offer to take Carlos Tevez on loan from Manchester City to QPR for the rest of the EPL season. Then to compound the felony Hughes has dressed up the deal with the charade that Carlos Tevez playing for QPR will help to ensure that Manchester City will be able to be crowned the EPL Champions come May 2012.

The QPR manager Mark Hughes said: “If he did come, he would be playing against teams and possibly help City win the league.”

Baloney – total BS – this is just a way for you all to make some money to further line the pockets of Kia Joorabchian – Carlos Tevez and Mark Hughes!

Of course for the uninformed Kia Joorabchian is also agent for Mark Hughes – so it looks like they are all p**sing in the same pot!

EPL Football is rotten and right at the top are rotten apples Kia Joorabchian – Carlos Tevez and Mark Hughes!

Carlos Tevez Agent Kia Joorabchian More Faces than a Town Hall Clock…

Gary Glitter Super Bowl Final 2012 Rock and Roll Part II

January 31st, 2012 No comments

The pompous righteous straight backed UK tabloid The Daily Mail are running a story on Gary Glitter – here are the headlines and the first line :-

Paedophile Gary Glitter to pocket thousands of pounds in royalties when hit is played at Superbowl final

Convicted child molester Gary Glitter is in line to make hundreds of thousands of pounds when his 1972 hit Rock and Roll Part II is played at the Super Bowl final next month. – Attribution to The Daily Mail

Shame on The Daily Mail and as for the reporter what right have you to harangue and disparage Gary Glitter in that way!
OOPS Silly me of course without using the words ‘Paedophile’ – ‘Convicted child molester’ there is no storyline…

I guess I am so dumb because we never drop down to the level of the gutter press to get a story at any cost. The irony is that The Daily Mail does not need to run stories like this as they usually have a raft of great news!

Gary Glitter aka Paul Francis Gadd has done his time served his prison sentence and has not re-offended and if he wants to earn a few quid because they will play Rock and Roll Part II at the 2012 Super Bowl Final – Then he should be allowed to without all The Daily Mail BS!

Gary Glitter Super Bowl Final 2012 Rock and Roll Part II…

Kevin-Prince Boateng Groin Injury Caused by WAG Melissa Satta

January 29th, 2012 No comments

There is a chump who plays for AC Milan called Kevin-Prince Boateng and he is out with a groin injury that will keep him out of action on the football pitch for at least a month

But there is new bizarre twist in the injury mystery the mentally challenged Kevin-Prince Boateng has been shagging a WAG who claims to be a supermodel named Melissa Satta who has now told the press that the groin and/or thigh injury is directly due to Mr Kevin-Prince Boateng having sex up to ten times a week with WAG Melissa Satta!

Melissa Satta – quote – ‘The reason why he is always injured is because we have sex seven to 10 times a week. – more – ‘I hate foreplay, I want to get straight to the point,’ – more – ‘My favourite position is on top so I can take control.’

Please pass me the sick bag, I want to throw up! How is this news UNBELIEVABLE

Thank god for footballers you could not make up this BS.

Kevin-Prince Boateng Groin Injury Caused by WAG Melissa Satta…

Denise Welch has Toyboy Lincoln Townley with Little Brother Package

January 29th, 2012 No comments

Now my oh my who would have thought that Big Brother winner Denise Welch has been playing away from home with a toyboy party organiser Lincoln Townley, 39, who has been showing her his own little brother! All this hanky panky has been going on while she is still married to actor Tim Healy 59!

Now it seems that 53 year old Denise Welsh is having some problems with her vision as rumors abound that she has become cockeyed over Toyboy Lincoln Townley and his now notorious ‘Little Brother’ package! Other gossip street talk is that when Denise Welsh starred in Loose Women, was about the same time as she became cockeyed and that all led to tension in her panties, and something had to fix that so in slid the Toyboy Lincoln Townley with his action man ‘Little Brother!’

Denise Welsh has a chequered history in the gossip columns like – quote – battling drink and drug problems in the past. Going topless in a hot tub with X Factor teenager Frankie Cocozza on Celebrity Big Brother.

Denise Welch has Toyboy Lincoln Townley with Little Brother Package…

Legend
Little Brother – meaning – Toyboy Lincoln Townley’s todger!

Celebs like Susan Boyle are just Cannon Fodder for the Gossip Press

January 26th, 2012 No comments

The celeb gossip sites and tabloid newspapers and magazines feast – prosper and create mayhem about stars and celebrities much of the stuff they write about is the real deal – the rest well call it what you like the usual disclaimers are rumors – or an unnamed third party said – get the drift – shall we just say it’s in the main entertainment gossip!

Here is a typical example Susan Boyle the Scottish singing sensation – she does not do drugs – she never dates and she has never had sex in her life. So how do the celeb gossip writers build a story around Susan Boyle. Easy they follow her with a paparazzi camera man get some good shots let’s say as Susan Boyle steps out of a taxi cab in London and the wind blows her hair all over the place. Wham they have the base to set up the story now for the headline descriptor – Susan Boyle Sexy Hair Show in London – now the reality is there was nothing sexy to write about but you need ‘Sexy’ to grab the attention to capture millions of eyeballs! Then you kick off the first line Susan Boyle looks sexy as she is about to enter (a leading brand name) fashion shop.

That’s the meat of the story the three essentials are – the star Susan Boyle – the eyeball grabber ‘Sexy’ – and the fashion brand name that will ensure advertisers will buy up all the ad spots around the article – That’s it folks how to set up a gossip press article.

Celebs like Susan Boyle are just Cannon Fodder for the Gossip Press…

Demi Moore the latest Celeb Drug Abuse Victim

January 26th, 2012 No comments

Did you read the descriptor – ‘Demi Moore the latest Celeb Drug Abuse Victim’ – what ‘Victim’ my ass! This is yet one example of an aging spoilt plastic Hollywood never was, who cannot even control who enters and leaves the inside of her panties. So how can anyone expect her to have any control with the drugs she pops whether prescription or hard drugs, it is all the same the woman is out of control in fact she has never been in control!

It gets tiresome writing about the likes of Demi Moore as at best, all she deserves is to be ridiculed or maybe even more relative thrown on the scrapheap like what happened with her husband Ashton Kutcher (another loser but more on him some day soon) who gets fed up with pounding the silicone Hollywood train wreck of a woman.

One can imagine a typical day for Demi Moore get up look in the mirror – then spend the next three hours in the bathroom – exit the bathroom – look in the mirror – get the driver/chauffeur to take her to the beauty parlor for a series of Botox treatment – leave there after 4 hours – look in the mirror – go pill popping some place drink some coffee and have the meal of the day half a croissant – another two hours gone – look in the mirror – go home and retreat to the bathroom for another three hours – surface again – look in the mirror – go down the hair salon for two hours – exit – look in the mirror – Damn I am done writing about that silly bitch!

Demi Moore is no drug abuse victim she is a headcase!

Demi Moore the latest Celeb Drug Abuse Victim…

Whitney Houston Runs Out of Money

January 24th, 2012 No comments

Whitney Houston has run out of money her desperate ‘Crack Cocaine’ addiction has sucked millions of USD dollars out of her bank accounts. Leaving her down and out at only 48 years of age. now reduced to calling up friends to borrow a 100 bucks here and there. So some may say it’s only Whitney Houston who cares!

Well we care here at OZAMI and we do not want to be seen taking the ‘Moral High Ground’ but the sad case of Whitney Houston does matter and we trust that anyone and everyone who reads this article will realize what drug abuse can do to anyone including a legendary diva like Whitney Houston.

A plea from OZAMI PLEASE SAY NO TO DRUGS!

Or you too may end up like Whitney Houston.

This is from the Whitney Houston record company – quote “Whitney’s fortune is gone,” – more – “Music industry heavy hitters are supporting her and her label is fronting her cash against her next album, but no one knows when that will be released.”

Whitney Houston is one of the biggest selling singers of all times and a 6 times Grammy Award winning artist.

Down the years Whitney Houston has had a string of hits but all those achievements seem nothing in light of the terrible crack cocaine abuse that has wrecked her career and taken a huge toll on her health – It’s not pretty writing about a tragedy like Whitney Houston! We can only hope she can get help!

Whitney Houston Runs Out of Money…

Bouncer Mistakes Lisa Woodman for a Tramp at Tramps

January 24th, 2012 No comments

Worcester
West Midlands
England

Well now that the British public are led to believe that nightclub bouncers are really ‘Venue Managers’ the world of hype takes a new nonsensical lunge towards complete an utter stupidity!

To showcase what we mean here are the Venue Managers at work in Tramps nightclub in Worcester, Lisa Woodman a saucy 28 year old blonde (out of a bottle of course) pitches up at the nightclub door all size 6 of her with huge 36DD mammaries the type Wayne Rooney likes to slap around as he enters from the rear. Lisa Woodman is wearing a low-cut top, short skirt and knee-length boots. Now all she is doing is getting dressed up like a tramp to get into Tramps nightclub in Worcester!

She was refused entry by the Venue Manager he said – quote – : “You’re too old to wear that get-up.” And then the steroid freak bouncer turned Lisa Woodman away from the club door.

Lisa Woodman made these comments – quote – ‘I always like to look sexy when I go out on the town.’ Lisa has dropped out four babies in recent years, so she has undergone breast enhancement to get everything back shipshape!

Bouncer Mistakes Lisa Woodman for a Tramp at Tramps…

Legend
Nightclub Bouncer – Local beefcake often thinks EPL footballers are intelligent! Have difficulty explaining why they are hooked on steroids. Believe they have the power to say how WAGs should dress to gain nightclub entry.

3 Nightclubs in Worcester are owned by the same company – Tramps – Modes – Velvet. Lisa Woodman is barred from all three.

Tips On Handling Pursuit & Distance

January 23rd, 2012 No comments

Pursuit and Distance in Online Dating – Part 2


…..part 1 can be found here…..

Tips On Handling Pursuit & Distance

Accept that sending an email to someone you like the look of but you do not yet know is a far cry from going on a date. This is not meant to put you off, however, you do need a willing partner to start the pendulum of a relationship swinging.

Some people will be shy, or not used to online dating. It can be difficult to assess this from a member’s profile on a dating site, so patience is a virtue when it comes to waiting for people to reply, they may be interested but need to build up the confidence to reply, if you bombard people with emails it may scare them off.

An email not returned is possibly worth a second attempt later, but if you still hear nothing then leave it, accept that the other person is not interested and move on. By not doing this you are in danger of becoming a harasser, and although this may not reflect your true personality it can come across this way, we all have to apply self control at some point in our lives.

If someone does not reply to your email, or they suddenly stop replying during a conversation, accept it and do not take it to heart. There are many reasons why someone will not reply to an email, they could have met someone else, got back with an ex, given up on dating, or they could be on holiday, or busy with work. Again, the more you pursue, the less likely the other person will be to contact you.

Accept and understand that there are people on dating dating sites with all kinds of agendas and some of those will never end up going on a date. They could be getting over an ex, making an ex jealous, massaging their ego, or even just ‘half looking’. No matter how much you try, these people will always be out of reach and your time is far better spent meeting genuine daters.

If in doubt – Move on! Don’t waste time waiting for that special someone to reply, you’re all in the same boat and you shouldn’t feel guilty for emailing as many people as you like, until you reach the dating stage it’s all about seeing who is out there, you’re not committed to speaking with just one person. Meanwhile, you just might get that email you’re waiting for!

Don’t demand answers on why someone is not interested or has stopped replying to emails, just accept that for ‘whatever reason’, it’s time to move on, if they come back great, if not don’t let it perplex you, it is obviously not meant to be at that time, and again, by demanding answers you are in the danger zone of becoming a ‘harasser’.

Basic advice is to look at online dating as a lighthearted affair to begin with, and learn to take rejection like an adult. If someone is not interested, it’s their loss, but to get nasty or accuse people of time wasting is in itself a waste of time. Be mature and adult about it, you don’t have a god-given right to date the people you add as favourites. If you play it cool and respect the dance of pursuit and distance, you will find online dating sites far more rewarding, and once you have fine tuned your approach, and you can apply it to everyday life later!

The main rule of thumb, and one which will stand you in good stead is to never pursue a distancer, it will never work out in the long run and you will save yourself a lot of heartache. Love is a two way game and it needs two people willing to play and do you really want to end up someone just because they ‘gave in’ or would you rather be with someone who genuinely wants to be with you!?

What Does Natasha Giggs Love to Suck on a Sunday Morning!

January 22nd, 2012 No comments

Hey to all folks in the UK this feature is for you, for decades in UK a typical Sunday for anything from four to eight million people was to read the now closed NoW – the much missed News of the World the glorious UK Sunday tabloid that echoed out loud who was screwing who – whether Celebs – Footballers – Politicians – Teachers – Nurses et al in fact everyone was fair game for the NoW – News of the World.

So let’s role play say today Sunday January 22, 2012 the headlines could well have been :-
Natasha Giggs Dons Specs to See EPL Sausage Clearly!

This WAG come wannabe reality star has been getting an awful lot of publicity in the UK tabloids of late but most of the press is big on hype and lacking in detail. What Joe Public need to know about Natasha Giggs is this :-

• Who was up inside her panties last night!

• Preferably a published image of the cocksman!

• Details confirming that Natasha Giggs prefers to suck on a large appendage in preference to an ice lolly!

• Why is Natasha Giggs wearing glasses these days what does she need to look at!

Now here is the kicker the NoW – News of the World would have covered all these details and more!

For those newbies to Natasha Giggs she was involved in an 8 year sausage piping affair with her husband Rhodri’s brother legendary Manchester United superstar Ryan Giggs who gave her miles of erectile sausage for more than 8 years

Oh for the return of the NoW – News of the World.

Alas we are left to read ‘The Observer’ who do not even know who Natasha Giggs is! Life is so unfair sometimes!

What Does Natasha Giggs Love to Suck on a Sunday Morning…

Seal Heidi Klum Marriage Over

January 22nd, 2012 1 comment

To quote Roy Orbison the marriage of Heidi Klum and Seal as the song says ‘It’s Over’. Heidi Klum calls time on marriage to Seal after six years and the divorce lawyers are set to wrap up the finances.

Talking about money could be one of the reasons for the marital split between Seal and Heidi Klum. In 2011 Heidi pull in $20 million dollars not bad for a supermodel whose sell by date was surely a decade ago, so kudos to Heidi she must have some brains to pull in the big bucks.

But Seal on paper does not look to be in that earning league and since his marriage to Heidi Klum what has he done career wise zilch. In fact the more one focuses on Seal it seems that siring children is his forte. Or was as now that he has got booted by Heidi all that is history.

This couple appeared as far as the public was concerned to make marriage into some sort of celeb event when they remarried every year once more with all the celeb gossip websites and paparazzi in attendance. Plus of course there are all the children to consider only a few more and they have enough to field a football team.

The big celeb and gossip sites are all over the break up news about Heidi Klum and Seal and TMZ had this to say – quote – ‘The last time TMZ filmed Seal and Heidi together, we asked her what the key to a successful marriage is. She didn’t answer the question.’ – Attribution to TMZ.Com

Seal Heidi Klum Marriage Over…

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Pursuit and Distance in Online Dating – Part 1

January 21st, 2012 No comments

Pursuit and Distance in Online Dating

Pursuit and Distance in Online Dating

Pursuit and Distance in Online Dating


Every heard of ‘pursuit and distance’? You may or may not know this term, but you can be sure you’ll have danced to its tune at some point in your life!

‘Pursuit and distance’ is a term given to describe how humans engage in relationships, it is about balance, there is the ‘pursuer’ and the ‘escapee’ and it can be applied to man and wife, parent and child, worker and employee, even friends can sometimes play this difficult game.

Pursuit and Distance In Day To Day Life

This dance of chase and avoidance has been covered in books, poems, literature and films for a very long time, it is a part of human nature. It is a popular subject and one which has been highlighted recently in the Golden Globe award winning ITV1 drama ‘Downton Abbey’. Set in ‘God’s Country’ (Yorkshire). The two lead characters of this quintessentially English costume drama, engage fully in the dance of pursuit and distance. Viewers can relate very well to the script, as will all have taken part in the dance of pursuit and distance at some time or another.

Pursuit and distance is a popular subject for those who specialise in psychological patterns and research. It is studied and written about from marriage counseling to family counseling and can be used in therapy to help pursuers understand their actions and hopefully change their behavior to live a more fruitful and rewarding life and not one based on an endless chase.

It is a fine balance and one which we, as humans, play every day. It could be a mother missing her son who has flown the nest, it’s a hard lesson but children have to make their own way at some point in life and a parent has to understand the boundaries so as not to become a hindrance, whilst still enjoying a happy balanced relationship with their child or children. It could be between two friends, one friend is a bit too keen and can’t understand why the more he or she tries to arrange nights out the less it seems to happen.

Pursuit and distance is usually a game we play and understand without realising, but some times, in certain situations, it can lead to displays of obsessive behaviour. Imagine pursuit and distance as a pendulum, it swings from side to side in a relationship, but in some cases, if pushed too hard from one side it can swing too heavily in the one direction; the more one person pursues, the more the other person tries to avoid contact.

Pursuit and Distance & Online Dating

With the above in mind, we can use the equation for a successful and happy time in online dating.

By respecting and understanding this game of ‘kiss chase’ when meeting someone new, we can get so much more from dating sites.

An online dating site is simply a database full of single people all looking for their special ‘someone’ to date, whether it be for love, friendship or a casual fling. But the way in which we use the site can determine how successful we are.

It is easy to assume that just because someone is there in front of us on the screen they’re ‘up for chatting’ and just because someone has viewed your profile, they will a) want a relationship and b) reply to an email in minutes. In reality, it is fair to assume that if you don’t receive a reply from an email after that person has viewed your profile, there will be no point in sending a third or fourth email. Even if you do receive an email, by appearing too keen you can become a ‘pursuer’ and early on in a friendship, this will not come across well to a prospective partner.
…..click for part two

Kelly Brook her latest New Look Fashion Shoot

January 19th, 2012 No comments

All women no cellulite and no silicone – how unique but hey folks have no fear Kelly Brook is one of the best 32 year old ‘Eye Candy’ you will find anywhere in the world.

Kelly Brook is simply sizzling HOT!

Here is what Kelly Brook has to say about her body – quote – “I can’t bear the fact that girls these days think you have to be thin to be beautiful and successful. I’m not thin. I don’t starve myself. I don’t look at my face and body and think I need surgery or a boob job or a bum lift.” – more – “It makes me very angry when women in the public eye talk about what work they’ve had done, because it makes other women feel devalued. ” – more – “They should just shut up about it.”

We have been checking out Kelly Brook in recent years and we can say that she just gets tastier and tastier and now is a divine 32 year old goddess.

The fashion shoot is for New Look and you can see Kelly Brook in :-
• Reddy to wear stockings and suspenders – as in sizzling hot red.
• Racy lacy spotted bra and briefs.
• Dreamy Creamy Undies!

There is steam coming out of this PC writing about Kelly Brook.

Kelly Brook her latest New Look Fashion Shoot…

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Imogen Thomas in a Hot Black String Bikini looks like a Big Girl

January 19th, 2012 No comments

Well what is going on Imogen Thomas has been doing a hot swimsuit shoot in Lanzarote, in the Canary Islands and from a guys point of view in all the images you see that is whole lot of woman there. Now is that because she was formerly a slave to sexual introductions delivered by EPL footballers naming one Ryan Giggs who has done a lot of ‘panty hustling’ with Imogen Thomas. We have to wonder how the body grows bigger is it due to more ‘podging’ with EPL footballers they all seem to like big asses and big frontages.

Once again back to the swimwear shoot in one set of images Imogen Thomas was bursting out of a hot black string bikini – Now we have to ask her body is immense, is this due to eating too much sausage or is it because she is addicted to EPL footballer Sausage Meat!

Question for our readers does Imogen Thomas love Sausage Meat!

Our survey on WAGS for what it is worth big cleavage and big derriere!

Do you all agree or do some EPL footballers like very slim WAGS too?

Imogen Thomas in a Hot Black String Bikini looks like a Big Girl…

Russell Brand Falls In Love Again

January 19th, 2012 No comments

‘Russell Brand Falls In Love Again’ Ouch do we really want to hear all this once more! The man who always insists how important he is, nobody else we believe is of that opinion, anyway never less the news we have to report is that Russell Brand is over the ‘Red Bag’ Katy Perry and is head over heels in love once again.

But the new love affair is extraordinary he is besotted and bursting with love for Russell Brand.

Yes you read that correctly – Mr Russell Brand is in love with Mr Russell Brand – and as Mr Brand said recently everything written about him on the Internet is lies. That means anything said about this very unfunny former alcoholic – recovering drug addict and much much more is ok yeah.

So how do we know he is in love again – well we have a report come in that someone saw Russell Brand looking in a mirror and was heard to say – quote – ‘I am in love with Russell Brand’ We wanted to throw up into the sick bag on hearing that twaddle – but we have to report it how it is – you read – you decide!

Russell Brand Falls In Love Again…

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Real Life Fairytale made on Thierry Henry’s Return to Arsenal

January 10th, 2012 No comments

Thierry Henry score winning goal on Fairytale return to Arsenal

We have all read or heard fairytale story where the hero embarks on a journey, encounter trials and tribulation, return home to save the day for his homeland and all is well. You will know that in reality, things hardly happen that way. In case of footballer, its even much less likely to happen especially when you are 34 years of age as Thierry Henry is when he made and appearance as a substitute on his return to the club where he is a living legend.

Henry, who is Arsenals all time goal scoring hero with 226 goals scored for the club in his eight years of playing for Arsenal before moving to Barcelona. Post Barcelona, he move on to the American club Red Bull (the same club another Premiership legend David Beckham play for). With 2 months on his hand because American soccer season is on holiday, Henry has been training with his old club Arsenal.

Arsenal manager who sign Henry for the club saw that Henry still has his old goal scoring prowess in him and sign him on load for just under two months. Arsen Wengers faith was re payed when Thierry Henry scored the decisive goal that break the deadlock in the lack luster FA cup 3rd round game between Arsenal and Leeds, sending Arsenal to the forth round of the draw.

FA Cup fourth round draw in full:

Brighton or Wrexham v Newcastle

Sunderland v Middlesbrough

Dagenham & Redbridge or Millwall v Southampton

Hull City v Crawley

MK Dons or QPR v Chelsea

West Brom v Norwich

Blackpool v Sheffield Wednesday

Arsenal v Aston Villa

Stevenage v Notts County

Watford v Tottenham

Liverpool v Manchester United

Derby v Stoke

Everton v Fulham

Macclesfield Town or Bolton v Swansea

Sheffield United v Birmingham or Wolves

Nottingham Forest or Leicester v Swindon

Andy Murry Wins Brisbane International final

January 8th, 2012 No comments

Andy Murray


British number 1 tennis player Andy Murry won the Brisbane International Final had a comfortable victory over 3rd seed Alexandr Dolgopolov of Ukraine.

Murray won nine straight games from 1-1 in the first set and, although Dolgopolov rallied, easily wrapped up the title.

“I’d like to say sorry to Alex; he had a problem with his leg,” Murray said.

“It’s my first week with this new team and it was good. Mr Lendl – he’s up there somewhere, hiding,” he added of new coach Ivan Lendl.

“I really enjoyed it. Hopefully it’ll bring more success in the future.”

The one slight concern for the world number four and his new coach will be a drop in concentration in the second set which allowed Dolgopolov to fight back from 4-0 to 4-3.

Murray had a fairly successful 2011, he is expected to do even better in 2012 with his new coach the legandarly Ivan Lendl.

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Open Relationships – Loads of problems ahead

January 7th, 2012 No comments

The problems with open relationships

Casual Dating

open relationships including FWB


Open relationships can be a way for couples to explore their desires and needs outside of their normal relationship – whilst still relying on their open relationship for intimacy and love. These kinds of open relationships can be successful but frequently a slew of problems arise in open relationships that often end either the open part or the relationship itself. In this piece we’re going to examine some of the problems that frequently arise in open relationships and discuss potential solutions.

The most common problem in all open relationships is jealousy. In reality, despite how much many of us like to kid ourselves, we all get jealous over certain things. Relationships are one of the most common sources of jealousy we experience. We become attached to our partner and often are inclined to act covetously towards them. An open relationship therefore exacerbates this problem as we are forced to share our partner with another or others over time. As a relationship develops this can prove an increasing problem. The potential solutions to this problem are stopping having an open relationship as things progress or making sure both you and your partner can remain jealous free. Overcoming jealousy is possible in an open relationship providing both you and your partner understand that yours is the only relationship in the arrangement.
The next common problem is time. Whilst time might seem like an odd problem an open relationship means that you and your partner will both be spending periods apart with other partners. This means you will be going out together less and will both have days and nights where one person is with another partner and the other is not. Sharing your time in this way can prove to be incredibly frustrating, angering and in some cases emotional depressing. Knowing your partner is sleeping with someone else, or might be, whilst you are sat in front of the TV alone can put a lot of strain on your relationship. The only potential solutions to this are to set times when you will always be together and make sure that you are either out at the same times or together at the same times. Whilst not always possible attempting this can help a relationship.

The final problem we’re going to look at is relationship development. As a relationship progresses one or more partners are likely to want to end the open part of the relationship and “settle down”. This can cause problems if the other person doesn’t want to and can strain a relationship and cause its termination. This is a particularly hard problem to avoid as it normally arises in the course of the relationship meaning the open relationship has been going on for some time. In this situation either you and your partner will be able to successfully end the open side of the relationship or the relationship will end.

Open relationships really are a very tricky relationship to “get right” and you are risking a lot by deciding to enter one. That is not to say you can’t be successful in them only that the majority of these relationships fail after a while. If your relationship is casual this might not be a problem but if you are seriously considering a long term future it is very risky.

Suntherland 1 – Manchester City 0- As City taste first defeat of the season

January 1st, 2012 No comments
Suntherland V Manchester City

Suntherland V Manchester City

Very little change on the top of the premiership after the new year fixtures were played. Manchester United who were hot on the heels of Manchester City were beaten yesterday by Blackburn. If Manchester City had beating Suntherland today, they would have open up a significant lead over United, their Manchester rival. Instead, a last minute stoppage time strike by Ji Dong-won saw Suntherland dent Manchester City’s aura of invincibility.
An excellent report of the game on BBC website goes something like this:
Ji Dong-won’s injury-time winner earned Sunderland a superb victory over Premier League leaders Manchester City.

City were aiming to capitalise on Manchester United’s loss to Blackburn, but came up against a determined display by Martin O’Neill’s side.

Nicklas Bendtner and Stephane Sessegnon were denied a goal either side of the break, with Edin Dzeko and Micah Richards both hitting the woodwork.

But with the last kick of the game, Ji rounded Joe Hart to win it.

It was a breathless end to a pulsating second half as the Korean substitute latched onto Sessegnon’s through ball following an isolated counter-attack, before calmly finishing.

And it was a rich reward for a performance which would leave defensive coaches drooling such was their energy all over the pitch and their steel at the back.
you can read the full BBC report here: news.bbc.co.uk/sport1/hi/football/16328586.stm
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